What I’ll Miss About the Quad Cities

Quad Cities, it’s been fun!

After 11.5 years, I left bright and early this morning to start my 1,000-mile journey to Panama City, Florida, to start the next chapter of my life.

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I’m stopping along the way in Grand Rivers, Kentucky, to have lunch with one of my best friends, Steve, at one of my favorite restaurants, Patti’s 1880’s Settlement!

If you’ve never heard of it and you’re traveling through Land Between The Lakes in western Kentucky, you have to stop there!

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On Thursday, I talked about my local television career.  Today, it’s all about how the Quad Cities enriched my life and, hopefully, made me a better person.

First off, social media made me more accessible to my friends.  It also made loyal viewers more connected to me and my life.

That’s definitely an advantage (and to some degree, with some, a disadvantage).  The friendships I’ve fostered over the years definitely outweighed the negative people that suck. 🙂

SETTLING INTO THE QUAD CITIES

It’s hard to believe that Miss ABBA, my golden retriever, and I arrived in Moline, Illinois, from Salisbury, Maryland, the week of Thanksgiving 2005 when I accepted the weekend meteorologist and weekday reporter position at the ABC affiliate.  After seven years there, I moved to WHBF for a little over four years.

When ABBA and I moved here, I was still earning my meteorology certification while working full-time.

We’d go on long walks to Karstens Park and sit for hours.  I’d be reading and studying and she happily watched the world go by.  She was always hoping that every person that walked by would stop and love on her. She was a golden retriever, after all!

It was always fun on our walks.  We’d stop and make “photo ops” out of someone else’s yard decorations! 🙂

EATING OUT

I love to cook and when I moved here, I ate most of my meals at home.  But, when my sister Tammy or “Mom” (Betty) visited the Quad Cities, I enjoyed going out to eat.

Bishop’s Buffet in South Park Mall in Moline was one of my favorites.  As you know, I love buffets and even though it was served cafeteria style, it was still a buffet and it was incredible.  I was saddened when they closed the doors.

I loved their coconut chicken and it was there that I first had strawberry-rhubarb pie. Bishop’s desserts were out of this world.  I still eat more desserts at a buffet than real food. 🙂

Along with Bishops, I loved Panda Buffet in Moline, which is now Osaka Buffet.  I got to eat there once more yesterday!

Where else can you have tasty Chinese food and great sushi at such a reasonable price!

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I’ll truly miss Osaka Buffet, but I know Panama City will have something similar to make me happy.

FATE KEEPS ME IN THE QUAD CITIES

After a few years here, I was thinking about leaving the Quad Cities in early 2009.  But, fate intervened and Ray and Gretel came into our lives.  I joined Facebook in March of that year and you pretty much know most of what’s happened since then. 🙂

But, since I’m sharing my memories of the Quad Cities and some of you are newer friends, I have more to tell.

Ray and I met in February 2009 and our first lunch date was at Exotic Thai in Moline.  I had pumpkin curry and each anniversary of that date we went back there and I had the same thing each time!

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Once we got past that date, I invited Ray over for dinner and made him Shrimp Scampi, which was healthier than my comfort food staple, Chicken a la King with mashed potatoes!

I still make Shrimp Scampi, but I’ve now mastered an incredible Shrimp Ceviche!

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The first dinner Ray made for me and Miss ABBA at his place was Chicken Piccata (thinly breaded, pan-fried chicken cooked with lemons and capers).  It’s now one of my favorite meals and Ray made it again for me last weekend.  (This is Ray’s Chicken Piccata from earlier this year.)

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While he was cooking, Miss ABBA was on the linoleum floor waiting for him to share with her or drop something.

Much to his chagrin, because he hated the ugly floor (and it was), I laid down beside her and just talked to him while he made dinner. 🙂

Since we both love to cook, the second big project after I moved in was to renovate the kitchen and we were very pleased with the final project in the summer of 2012.

I’m truly going to miss our kitchen!

FIRST CONCERT DATE

We’ve gone to many concerts over the past eight years:  Madonna (twice), Lady Gaga (three times), Reba (three times), Britney Spears, Elton John, Bette Midler, Olivia Newton-John, Shania Twain, Duran Duran, Janet Jackson, Scissor Sisters, Michael Buble, Josh Groban, the Dixie Chicks, Erasure, Enrique Iglesias, Pitbull (twice), Kesha, Carly Rae Jepsen, The Band Perry, Ellie Goulding, and more.

But, our first concert together in the summer of 2009 was Keith Urban and pre-megastar Taylor Swift at the iWireless Center in Moline!

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Yes, in all of his sweaty hotness, Keith was this close to us.  But, I was on a date and I adore Nicole Kidman too much to think about it (okay, maybe a little!). 🙂

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TRAVEL

Before the Quad Cities, my travel was confined to North America:  Nashville (TN), Louisville (KY), Houston (TX), Palm Springs (CA), Las Vegas (NV), Niagara Falls (NY), and Cancun (Mexico).

Once I met Ray, we started traveling more domestically.

Our first trip together was to Reno and Lake Tahoe, Nevada, when I accompanied him to a conference.  That was in the fall of 2009 and I was so excited when an October snow dropped several inches overnight to make Lake Tahoe even more breathtaking.

Since then, I’ve gone along with him to New Orleans (LA), Houston, Indianapolis (IN), Ottawa (Ontario, Canada), San Francisco (CA), Anchorage (AK), and Atlanta (GA).

And, for fun, we’ve gone to New York City and to Savannah (GA) and Charleston (SC) on the Atlanta Trip.

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For his 50th birthday, we decided to go big and I got to get a passport for the first time. Ray chose a cruise on the Danube River in Europe and we got to see Bratislava (above), Austria, and Germany.

Although it was Ray’s celebration and he chose the location, I convinced him to fly into Zurich, Switzerland, since we were so close.  I’ve always wanted to visit there and it was one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever seen.

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For dinner that night, we went to a restaurant and the menu consisted of mostly deer and boar, so we politely got up and left while the waiter was getting water. Okay, we bolted for the door! 🙂

We ended up going to a grocery and getting cheeses, breads, dessert, and wines and it was a much more intimate and enjoyable dining experience.

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For my 50th birthday celebration a year later, in 2014, I chose to go to Tel Aviv, Israel, a mystical and stunning place I’ve always wanted to go.

The connecting flight was in Paris, France, so we decided to spend three nights in Paris since we were already there and four night in Tel Aviv.

For my birthday celebration, Ray treated me to a dinner cruise on the Seine River, a trip to the top of the Eiffel Tower, and a show at the world-renowned and historic Moulin Rouge — sans Satine (Nicole Kidman — her again!)

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I actually turned 50 years old while sipping champagne stage side at the Moulin Rouge show.

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From there, it was on to the beautiful Tel Aviv on the Mediterranean Sea.

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The trip was so magical.  Even though tensions kept us from visiting the holy city of Jerusalem, we did walk to Jaffa — the oldest part of Tel Aviv (about 3,500 years old).

You know how much I love food and the morning Israeli breakfast at our hotel, Prima City Hotel, was very tasty.

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However, my favorite meal ever was at בני-הדייג, which translates to Benny The Fisherman, right on the Mediterranean Port.

What you see here is the equivalent of their “starters” — fifteen of them, including the bread basket!  This was brought out before our entrees!

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And, last spring, we went to China.  While I’d never have to go back again, if you ever get a chance to go, do it.

While we saw many fun things including the Great Wall, the Terracotta Army soldiers, and much more, my favorite part was at the end — Shanghai!

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Why did I deviate from the Quad Cities to food and travel elsewhere?  If it wasn’t for my time here, I may not have gotten to experience all of those other things.

One more thing and then I’ll close with a few more Quad Cities thoughts.  I shared my favorite restaurant (Patti’s 1880s Settlement) and my favorite meal (בני-הדייג — Benny the Fisherman).

Since you know I love lists and rankings, my favorite entree was in Atlanta last September at Tavernpoint — Sonoran Salmon (avocado soup, goat cheese-black bean cake, crema, pico).

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And, my favorite brunch or buffet is Wicked Spoon at the Cosmopolitan in Las Vegas!

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Now, back to the Quad Cities.

I’m going to miss Wise Guys Pizza in Davenport.  Their boneless chicken wings are superb and their dessert pizzas (cherry, apple, and cinnamon crumb) are not to be missed.  I always eat more dessert pizza than the others.

I’ll miss the mimosa brunches at the Bix Bistro and Thunder Bay and the weekend crab legs at Jumer’s.

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However, while I’ll miss my Lotus Flower slot machine, I won’t miss leaving my $$$ with the casino!

Seriously, enough about food.  I’ve gained five pounds writing this.

PERSONAL THANK YOUS…

When I first moved here, I started working to promote the LGBT community in the Quad Cities.

I was very impressed with the work that Wendy Kelly and Thea Hansen Bettis were doing with “The Project of the Quad Cities”.  This is an amazing group that provides HIV testing and services to those with HIV/AIDS.

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While I’m not an “organized religion” person, a great alternative and welcoming group is Reverend Rich Hendricks and the Metropolitan Community Church of the Quad Cities.

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Rich, thank you for all that you do for the community.  It’s been a pleasure standing along side you in the fight for love and no hate!

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Also, to Rich, to those who fought for us, and the Iowa judges that brought “marriage equality” to Iowa and the Midwest before the Supreme Court ruling in 2015 that allowed me to get married in September 2011, thank you!

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Finally, since all of you know how much Miss ABBA meant to me, I have to say a special thank you to Dr. Thomas Greiner and his wonderful wife, Pamela, and all of the great people at Oak Knoll Animal Hospital in Moline.

Miss ABBA always thought going to the vet was a fun time.  Even with shots, she still socialized and had a blast.

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You were there for us for all of the fun times and even the dark day when Miss ABBA crossed the “rainbow bridge”.

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Thank you for everything and enjoy retirement and traveling!

AND, NOW YOU!

My friends, you’ve been amazing over the past 11.5 years and I hope you stay in touch across the miles.  I know you’re probably not interested in Florida weather, but once I get my work page set up, feel free to “like” it and follow me.

Otherwise, I know most of us will stay in touch personally.

To you, my friends…

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Anthony

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24 responses to this post.

  1. Posted by Tammy Ridpath on May 5, 2017 at 4:56 am

    I’m doing the ugly cry. Good-bye Anthony. I love you. 💜😢

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  2. Safe travels, Anthony and Ray! And don’t forget to send me your new address!

    Sent from my iPhone

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    • Renne,

      Thank you very much. I’m the only one that traveled and I made it safely.

      I’ll send new address to you.

      Have a great summer!

      AP

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  3. Posted by Lynn Diffenbaugh on May 5, 2017 at 5:52 am

    The best always !

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  4. Posted by Cyndi Emler-Hintz on May 5, 2017 at 6:40 am

    tears in my eyes Anthony. May God continue to bless you and your family. Hugs to you all!!!

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  5. Posted by Jewel on May 5, 2017 at 7:58 am

    I read it even though I was afraid to. I didn’t want to cry. I made it to the end before I shed the tears. Good luck to you, my friend. I wish you nothing but the very best and a lifetime of happiness. Thank you for the friendship. You are an inspiration and an advocate to so many. You’ve touched so many lives, I hope you know that.
    Jewel

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    • Jewel,

      Now you’re going to make me cry. You’re too sweet and I’m honored to have met you, dined with you, and made a friendship with you.

      Take care and have a great summer.

      AP

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  6. Posted by Connie Huizenga on May 5, 2017 at 10:30 am

    I have already shed all the tears I am going to. I am going to be happy at the positive opportunities that have been presented to you. I am going to wish you much success, much happiness, many walks on the beach, and maybe another dog. I am going to wish you adventures looking for new restaurants to love, new friends to gather with, and safe travels. I will stay in touch and maybe see you once in a while when we visit grandkids that live across the bridge. Love you Anthony.

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    • Connie,

      My dear friend, thank you. Maybe one day I’ll have another dog. 🙂

      Once I get settled in (taking much longer than usual), I’ll be in touch better and have stories to tell.

      Love you, too. Have a great summer.

      AP

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  7. totally loved reading all of this the stories and the pictures it was a real pleasure to have known you be safe traveling enjoy yourself along the way will look forward to seeing posts from you when you get settled will miss you!! God bless you always

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    • Karen,

      Thank you and the feelings are mutual. Take care of yourself and I’d say work less, but I know you, friend.

      AP

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  8. Thank you for sharing Anthony! I really enjoyed reading about all of your adventures. I am glad i was able to meet you and get to know you both in person and via social media. I look forward to following all of your new adventures, and may just pop I in you if our adventures bring us back to Panama city some day.

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    • John,

      You’re too kind and it was a pleasure meeting you, too. I wish you the very best and stay in touch. You know I’ll share more adventures.

      AP

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  9. Posted by Mary Smith on May 6, 2017 at 9:52 am

    Such treasures you gave in your memories! This must have been such a hard decision for you! Good luck in your new adventures!

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    • Mary,

      It was very difficult and I’m still asking, “did we make the right decision?”.

      Take care and stay in touch!

      AP

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  10. Posted by MaryAnn on May 6, 2017 at 7:08 pm

    Thank you for sharing your memories of the QCA. We used to see you walking Miss Abba near Karstens park when we were walking our English Springer, Jasmine. Many blessing to you, Anthony. Look forward to hearing about your new adventures.

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  11. Posted by Teresa on May 7, 2017 at 1:11 pm

    I didn’t realize you still had your blog!! I found it today while doing a search for WMBB-TV to see if you had started your new job yet. I always enjoyed reading your
    blog – I have a LOT to catch up on!! Wishing you the best~~

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    • Teresa,

      You’re too kind. Read away. 🙂 I still have it, but I haven’t been writing much. Hopefully when things settle down, I’ll start again.

      Have a great summer!

      AP

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  12. Enjoyed reading about your memories of the QCA. We would see you walking with Miss ABBA near Karsten park when we walked our spring spaniel, Jasmine. Many blessings to you, Anthony. Look forward to hearing about your new adventures.

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    • Mary Ann,

      Thank you very much. We definitely enjoyed our time in your neighborhood.

      Take care and stay in touch!

      AP

      Reply

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