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Random Friday Thoughts — December 13, 2013

Happy Friday!  I’m a little scared today.  It’s not about the snow coming in tonight and Saturday, but about Jason Voorhees.  Yes, it’s “Friday the 13th”, so I hope you have a great weekend.

Here are my random Friday thoughts.



Snow is coming in tonight and early Saturday for the Mississippi and Illinois Valleys.  Here’s how much you can expect!

Snow Tonight & Saturday


Ice Ray

Meteorological winter is already here even if the calendar says we have to wait until next weekend for the winter solstice.  Last weekend, while in Nashville, icy road conditions and speed were responsible for a deadly accident in the metro area.

Driving home was very scary.  Once we got past the fresh coating of ice in northwestern Tennessee, we encountered leftover heavy snow in southern Illinois, and falling freezing rain in central Illinois.  While it was a slow drive for hours at 40-50 miles-per-hour, the interstate was littered with cars and semis in the ditch — some overturned.


And, yet with all of the accidents and emergency crews working on the side of the interstate to rescue people, there were still idiots speeding past us and the slowing traffic.

People, ice and snow means conditions are not ideal, so slow down!


One week ago, I was looking forward to seeing Lorrie Morgan’s Christmas show, the ICE exhibit featuring “Frosty the Snowman”, a lunch cruise on the General Jackson showboat on the Cumberland River, and the Grand Ole Opry.  Now that we’re back and I put in my five days at work, the mini-vacation seems like it was so long ago!


I would definitely consider Nashville as a place to retire.


I thoroughly enjoyed my mini-vacation and it was cool to visit the Opry at the Ryman.  This is the music that I grew up on in Kentucky.  Most of the show that we saw was entertaining, yet some of it was painful.  But, that’s not the focus of my random thought.

Country music legend Connie Smith was the host of the first 30 minutes of the two-hour Opry show.  Smith, from 1964-1978, scored 40 Top 40 hits on the Billboard Country charts with 20 of them reaching the Top Ten!  She was very entertaining.


However, my mind started wandering about the Opry and country music’s close ties to Christianity.

While I know there are many open-minded and loving “Christians” out there, the advertisements from sponsor, Cracker Barrel, and Smith’s introduction to a close family friend and medical doctor of Reverend Billy Graham, made me think more and more about homophobia.


Country singer Chely Wright, who has scored nine hits on the Billboard Country chart with “Single White Female” reaching #1 in 1999 and was a regular performer at the Opry, has not been invited back since she came out publicly as a lesbian in 2010.

Chely Wright

Chely married her partner, Lauren Blitzer, in August 2011, and this past May, Chely gave birth to identical twins.

Last year, Chely told “Nashville Scene”, “I do think that there are homophobic people in the industry — some of them in power.  I feel that the greatest setback that plagues the country music industry is their collective fear of the consumer’s expected homophobia. I call this fearphobia. The industry is afraid of the record buying public’s fear of gays and lesbians. They’re afraid of fear. And that fear is enough to cause silence. And it’s deafening, if you ask me.”

I love Chely and she is a very courageous woman.  I just wish that the country music genre that I grew up listening to would be more welcoming to my LGBT brothers and sisters.

Opry, it’s time for you to do the right thing and welcome Chely back with open arms.


LollipopCookie Swap

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While dignitaries around the world are paying respect and mourning the loss of former South African President Nelson Mandela, who died last week, this past Sunday marked the 33rd anniversary of the shooting death of another man who was a voice for peace and love, John Lennon.

John Lennon

John, what you believed in, and Yoko, what you still fight for, is still achievable.  We may not see world peace, but I know that some are living more peaceful lives because of your efforts then and our efforts now.  No one has said it better that you — we just have to “Imagine”!

Happy Christmas everyone!  While this video contains disturbing images, we need to step outside our comfort zone to see how much work there is left to do in our lifetime.


Elton John and John Lennon were great friends.

Elton John and John Lennon

After the Beatles broke up and Elton John was dominating the pop charts in the early-1970s, John Lennon was working on his solo music career.  He reached #3 with “Instant Karma” in 1970 and #3 with “Imagine” the following year.

But, it would be his seventh solo hit that would become his only #1 hit in his lifetime after the Beatles.  “Whatever Gets You Thru The Night” featured his friend, Elton, on harmony vocals and piano.  And, John surprised Elton by appearing on stage during Elton’s Thanksgiving concert in 1974 at Madison Square Garden in Lennon’s last major concert appearance.

In 1982, Elton dedicated “Empty Garden (Hey Hey Johnny)” to his friend, John Lennon and the song reached #13 on the Billboard Hot 100.


And, while I’m talking about Elton, he’s making news after his recent concerts in Russia.

Calling it “inhumane” and “isolating”, Elton took time out of his Moscow, Russia, concert last Friday night to talk about the anti-gay laws that were implemented in Russia this summer.

Elton John Performs at Madison Square Garden

Elton told the crowd, “I have always loved coming here, coming to this country, ever since I first played here in 1979. I love Russia – I love its art and its culture. But most of all, I love you, the people. You took me to your hearts all those years ago, and you have always welcomed me with warmth and open arms every time I have visited. You have always embraced me, and you have never judged me.  So I am deeply saddened and shocked over the current legislation that is now in place against the LGBT community here in Russia. In my opinion, it is inhumane and it is isolating.”

Vladislav Tornovoi

And, before he closed his condemnation of Russia’s homophobia, he asked for harmony to build “a future of equality, love and compassion” and he dedicated the show in memory of 23-year-old Vladislav Tornovoi, whose naked body had been dumped in a Volgograd courtyard this past May.  His skull was smashed and he had been raped with beer bottles.

Take three minutes to watch this compelling and heartbreaking story here from Sky News about Tornovio and the blatant homophobia that exists in Russia.


Joan Rivers cracks me up!

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“Silent Night” from Kelly Clarkson’s Christmas special, “Kelly Clarkson’s (Cautionary) Christmas Tale” earlier this week on NBC.  It features Reba McEntire and Trisha Yearwood and is on Kelly’s “Wrapped In Red” holiday album.


Christmas lights brighten the holidays in multi-colors, solid colors, and clear bulbs.  However, if those lights are rainbow, it can cause some to freak out, especially in Rome, Italy.


This almost mile-long stretch of rainbow-flag lights decorate the Via del Corso, Rome’s main shopping street, to take a stand against homophobia following the recent suicide of a gay teenager.

The right-wing party, Fratelli d’Italia, calls the logic behind the decorations “provocative and ideological” and asked that they be replaced by the colors of Italy’s flag.

That was rejected and the lights will stay up as a dedication to the late South African President Nelson Mandela.

While we’re on the subject of Rome, the city’s mayor, Ignazio Marino, says the “Eternal City” needs to stop living in the past when it comes to marriage equality.
Rome Mayor
Marino told HuffPost Live, “I believe that if a couple loves each other, they should get married.  I don’t see where the problem is. I guess it’s a problem with people thinking in the past — people belonging to the previous century. The last century is gone. It’s surprising for me that this is open for discussion.”
Thank you, Mayor Marino!


“Work Bitch” is a fun song and Britney Spears looks amazing in the video.  However, it didn’t blow Top 40 radio away.

However, the follow-up, “Perfume”, is already one of the hottest songs in the country and is still racing up the chart.  The video debuted this week and Britney is incredible playing up vulnerability and insecurity.  And, I don’t know who is hotter — her or hot “boyfriend”.

“Britney Jean”, Britney’s eighth solo album debuted at #4 on the Billboard album chart this week with sales of 107,000 copies.

Britney Jean

While that’s a soft opening for Britney, she didn’t do any live performances to promote the album while she’s still rehearsing for her two-year Las Vegas residency that begins later this month at Planet Hollywood.

Britney’s last album, “Femme Fatale” sold 276,000 copies in its first week in 2011, but it had a huge smash at radio at the time, the #1 hit, “Hold It Against Me”.


While I thoroughly enjoyed the “Reba: All The Women I Am” exhibit and the rest of the displays at the Country Music Hall of Fame in Nashville last week, there was something that had me scratching my head.


Whose idea was it to put the Dixie Chicks and Toby Keith memorabilia in the came display case?  Really?

Some days you just gotta dance if you’re not ready to make nice. 🙂

Have a great weekend!


Random Friday Thoughts — April 5, 2013

My friends, another Friday is upon us and I’m very pleased to announce that I have nothing planned this weekend and I’m so thrilled about it.

Between work and upcoming events, both public appearances and personal commitments, I have a lot going on for the rest of April and May and I’m already overwhelmed!  But, this is one thing that I really look forward to each week, sharing my random thoughts with you.  What do you think of this blog feature???


Although we’ll have to deal with some scattered showers Saturday, it’s going to be very warm with highs in the Quad Cities around 70°!   This will be the warmest weekend since December 1-2, 2012, four months ago, when we reached 61° and 59°.

With that being said, I think we’re going to grill out Saturday night.  Maybe we’ll be lucky and get to sit outside on the patio.

As many of you know, I love Moscato and flavored vodkas, but here’s something that I think I’m going to have to check out and it would be perfect for the BBQ.  If you’ve already tried it, let me know how it is.

This is what I’ve read about it:  “This is our take on the traditional margarita. Beer drinkers were already mixing Bud Light Lime into margaritas to create ‘beer ritas’; Lime-a-Rita just adds a new level of convenience by providing a beverage with the perfect balance of flavors.”



After a dry day Sunday, a very wet period is expected from Sunday night through next Thursday with rain chances each day.  I wouldn’t be surprised if we get more than 2″ of rain in that time period.  I know our fish pond could use the water since we just went through a 12-day period with no measurable rain or snow.



Wanda Sykes


Every spring, I wager $5 and fill out my brackets for the men’s NCAA basketball tournament, better known as “March Madness”.  In the past, I’ve never been a contender down the stretch!  However, this year, “March Madness” is insane for me.

Final Four Picks

If you’re a basketball fan, you can see that I have Louisville and Michigan in the final with Louisville winning.

If my calculations are correct and both of those teams make it to the finals, then I’ll likely win the “pool” at work and if those two teams make it to the final and Louisville wins, I think I may have won a 50″ LED television from a local newspaper’s bracket contest!   So, what started out as fun and a $5 investment could turn out rather profitable for me.  You know what I’ll be doing Saturday night when the two games are being played!  The finals are Monday night, April 8th, on CBS4, in the Quad Cities.

Go Louisville and Michigan!


Give Peeps a Chance

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It’s no surprise to my friends that I idolize Reba McEntire, Madonna, Lady Gaga, former President Jimmy Carter, and former U.S. Secretary of State, First Lady, and Senator (and future President?) Hillary Clinton, but I’m now feeling the love for an unlikely ally.

Willie Nelson

When you hear the name Willie Nelson, you probably think country singer, outlaw, hippie, marijuana smoker, troubles with the IRS, and other things.  But, what about LGBT and marriage equality supporter?  Yes and yes!

Willie says, “For same-sex couples, taxes are different, benefits are different, survivor benefits are different.  It’s crazy … I never had a problem with any of it. I’ve known straight and gay people all my life. I can’t tell the difference. People are people where I came from.”

And, the “Red Headed Stranger” goes on to say with his wicked sense of humor, “I never thought of marriage as something only for men and women. But I’d never marry a guy I didn’t like!”   And, with a mix of humor and seriousness, “[gay people] should be just as miserable as the rest of us,” before stating that he finds the public uproar over same-sex marriage “ridiculous…in this day and age.”

Willie Nelson Marriage Equality

Willie recently posted this picture when the Supreme Court of the United States was debating California’s ban on same-sex marriage, “Proposition 8”, and the “Defense of Marriage Act”, which states that marriage is between a man and a woman.

And, here’s something else you may not know about Willie.  He’s a strong advocate for better treatment of horses and he supported the passage of the “American Horse Slaughter Prevention Act”.  He told “Men’s Journal” magazine in July 2011, “I’m an outside person.  I like to camp out and ride the horses.  I have 71 of them there [on his Luck, Texas ranch] — beautiful paint horses — that I rescued from places that were selling them to be slaughtered.”

Willie Nelson Horses

Willie Nelson turns 80-years-old later this month.  To the man who has had a total of 82 country hits (60 of which were solo hits) with 44 of them reaching the country Top Ten and 23 topping the charts (14 #1 solo hits), I salute you and I appreciate you being a strong ally in supporting equality for all.

Happy Birthday, Willie and thank you!

“If You’ve Got The Money Honey I’ve Got The Time”

“Always on My Mind”


In television news, a “sound bite” is a short comment, from a longer interview, that stresses a point that the speaker is trying to make in a news story.  So, here are some of my sound bites about things that I watch:

TWD S3 Finale

* A record 12.4 million people watched the season three finale of “The Walking Dead”.

* The one-hour (two back-to-back 30-minute episodes) season finale of “The New Normal” was funny, cute, and sentimental.  However, the ratings are less than stellar and I don’t think it’ll be renewed  for a second season unless creator Ryan Murphy (“American Horror Story” and “Glee) has a lot of pull in Hollywood and at NBC.

* The viewership of the first two weeks of this year’s NCAA men’s basketball tournament was up 31% this year over last year — the highest ratings in 19 years!


* I’m ready for this season of “The Following” to end.  I know the season finale April 29th will be incredible, but the show is really starting to drag and it’s starting to irritate and bore me.  My correspondence with my good friend, Kelly, in Baltimore, Maryland, sums it up.

Kelly:  “Bates Motel is what I wanted The Following to be. (Following and I have broken up.)”

Me:  “‘The Following” and I sticking together for the kids until the season finale and then I’m done. I can’t believe how ridiculous it has become. I mean, give the FBI a break. I know you have to draw it out to 15 episodes, but really. Last week was nothing but filler.”

* While we dropped cable because we never watched television, I want to see “Bates Motel” on A&E, which Kelly highly recommends.  Last night, I watched “Hannibal” on NBC and it was incredible, gory, suspenseful, and psychologically stimulating.  If you missed it, NBC usually has most of its show online for viewing.

Here’s the “Viewer Discretion Advised” trailer:

My Wednesday’s blog link about the new “Hannibal” series:

* And, finally, “Dexter” season 7 arrives on DVD May 14th.  The countdown is on:  39 days!


Roger Ebert

Roger Ebert, the legendary movie critic and television co-host, who popularized a movie rating of “thumbs up” or “thumbs down” died Thursday in Chicago.

Since 2002, the 70-year-old Ebert struggled with cancer of the thyroid, salivary glands, and the chin, which affected his ability to speak, eat, and drink, he never gave up and was a fighter.

Two years ago, he published his book, “Life Itself:  A Memoir”.


With the record warmth in March 2012, things looked a lot different last year compared to now.  The grass was green, lilacs were in bloom, my friend, Lynn, had a flowering bush budding with Easter eggs, and my garden was already tilled!


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Chris Wallace, a musician from Chicago and the former lead singer for the band White Tie Affair, released his first solo song, “Remember When (Push Rewind)” last summer and it was a pick hit of mine and one of the absolute best songs of 2012!  It did get moderate airplay, but was pretty much ignored at pop radio in the big scheme of things.  While it reached #25 on Billboard’s Pop Songs chart, it never cracked the Billboard Hot 100.

The follow-up coming out later this month is “Keep Me Crazy”.


Andy Bell and Vince Clarke have been making music together since 1985 as Erasure.  Although they only scored three top 20 pop hits in America, #12 “Chains of Love” (1988), #14 “A Little Respect” (1988), and #20  “Always” (1994), it was “Oh L’Amour” that blew me away when I start going out clubbing and dee-jaying.  It hit #3 on the dance chart in 1986.

I guess I’ll wrap this up now because I could go on and on.  I do have many random thoughts!  Just ask Ray! 🙂

Have a great weekend!


I’m Your Christmas Juke Box Today

I hear people say that it seems like Christmas starts earlier each year.  In the quest to get more of your money, that’s true.  By the time “Black Friday” arrives, many stores have already had big sales.

I love it each holiday season when “Mix 96” in the Quad Cities changes their music format to all Christmas!  I could listen to holiday music all year around and I confess that when I’m overly stressed, I turn it on to chill out, even if it’s September.

holiday boom box

Today, I’m going to share my favorite Christmas songs with you.  Now, while I love Reba, Michael Buble, and Josh Groban, every song from their Christmas albums cannot make the list, otherwise you’d still be reading it next Christmas, so I’ll select just one of my favorites from each of them.

Whether you’re at work, at play, or at home reading my blog today, click on each of my selections and let me your Christmas Juke Box today!

While Christmas would not be complete if we didn’t hear Bing Crosby, Johnny Mathis, or Elvis belting out classics, they are not in my Top Ten.

My other favorites that just missed out, too, are “Santa Claus Is Coming To Town” (Bruce Springsteen), both versions of “Please Come Home For Christmas” (The Eagles and Bon Jovi), “Jingle Bell Rock” (Bobby Helms), “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)” (Darlene Love), “Rockin’ Around The Christmas Tree” (Brenda Lee), “Sleigh Ride” (Debbie Gibson), and “If We Make It Through December” (Merle Haggard).

Now, my ten favorite holidays songs.  To make this list, it has to be a song that regardless of what I’m doing or if I’m in the car and it comes on, I’ll stop and listen until it’s over.



My love for this song goes back to watching my mother cry every time she heard it.  And, now I know why.  We really need to slow down at the holidays and show more love and compassion, especially to strangers.



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I absolutely love the message behind this song.  I wish radio (pop and country) would play it at Christmas time.

I  remember when I was in Maryland, in 2005, and one of the radio groups had an all-day telethon to raise money for Hurricane Katrina victims and the American Red Cross.  You could call any of the radio stations that you listened to and make a donation and they’d play your request on whichever station you chose, regardless of the genre.  I donated $10 to play this Reba song on the hard rock station. 🙂

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“O Holy Night” is my favorite Christmas song.

I could very well have had Reba, Whitney Houston, Mariah Carey, Faith Hill or countless others listed here.  But, there are many classics on Josh Groban’s “Noel” album and his version is perfect and that voice makes me melt!

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If you’ve only heard this song on the radio and have never seen the video, it’s graphic.  War is never pretty, even during the holidays.

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Christmas has definitely taken a turn a bit darker in my countdown after many upbeat and fun holidays songs.

And, what would Christmas be without a Christmas Bonus?

Christmas-Bonus- Woman

What?  You want the other present?

Christmas-Bonus- Man

Wait, I’m not talking that kind of bonus.  Casey Kasem always had an “American Top 40 Extra”!  So, here’s mine.

Before I started the countdown of my favorite Christmas songs, I said, “while I love Reba, Michael Buble, and Josh Groban, every song on their Christmas albums cannot make the list”.  The same can be said for the Carpenters, so here’s an extra medley before we get to #1.

We’ve counted down the hits, all the way from number ten to number two and now we’re up to my favorite Christmas recording of all time!



Which of these do you like or dislike?  What is your favorite?

Merry Christmas!


Imagine… It’s Easy If You Try

I always try to find a silver lining to every cloud and trust me, I had to look really hard today because there are a lot of dark clouds hovering over December 8th.

On this day back in either 1982 or 1984 (conflicting dates!), Onika Tanya Maraj was born in Saint James, Trinidad and Tobago.  We know her today as rapper Nicki Minaj and she’s a great performer.  I saw her in July 2011 when she opened for Britney Spears in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

Nicki Minaj

That is the silver lining because on December 8, 1941,  America was entering World War II after Japan attacked Pearl Harbor, Hawaii, the day before.  This date in history is also marked by other depressing events:  Right-wing nut job Ann Coulter was born in 1961, a 1963 plane crash in Maryland killed 81 people, another plane crash in 1972 at Chicago’s Midway Airport left 45 dead, and the 1987 Alianza Lima Air Disaster in Peru left 43 dead.  There were several war deaths on this date and violent political attacks that left many dead.

And, as a 16-year-old in Mayfield, Kentucky, getting ready for bed after the local news, I remember the networks breaking into television programming on December 8, 1980, to announce that John Lennon, of the Beatles, had been shot and killed outside his apartment, The Dakota, in New York City, as he and his wife, Yoko Ono, were returning home.

John Lennon and Yoko Ono

40-year-old Lennon was enjoying a quieter life in New York City with his wife and their son, Sean, after dominating the international music scene in the 1960s, with the Beatles, and as a solo recording star in the 1970s.

John Lennon released his first single in 1969 without the Beatles even as the super group was still topping the charts with “Come Together” (1969), “Let It Be” (1970), and “The Long And Winding Road” (1970).

“Let It Be” is still my favorite Beatles’ song.


John Lennon left the Beatles in the fall of 1969, just as his first single, “Give Peace A Chance” with Ono was climbing the charts.  It would peak at #14 on the Billboard Hot 100 and become an anthem for anti-war demonstrations in the 1970s.

Lennon would have two more hits in America, “Cold Turkey” (#30), which documented the withdrawal symptoms he experienced from a heroin addiction, and “Instant Karma (We All Shine On)” (#3), before he released his first solo album, “John Lennon/Plastic Ono Band”.  Although the album went “gold” (shipments of 500,000) in the U.S., it spawned no hits.

Everything would change for John Lennon in the fall of 1971 with the release of the album, “Imagine” and the title track as the first single.


The album would hit #1 in the United States and move two million copies.  The single, “Imagine”, reached #3 here, but it topped the charts in Australia, Canada, Italy, and in England.  It’s by far the best John Lennon song.

From his first hit, “Give Peace A Chance” in 1969 to his #20 song in 1975, “Stand By Me”, John Lennon charted with nine Top 40 singles (four reached the Top Ten).  His only #1 hit during this period was “Whatever Gets You Through The Night” in 1974.  His other Top Ten hit in the 1970s was “#9 Dream” in 1975, and that one peaked at, you guessed it, #9, in the U.S.!

His remake of “Stand By Me” in 1975 would be the last single he released for five years so he could spend time with his newborn son, Sean.  Then, in the fall of 1980, he was ready to return to radio and music with the release of  the first single, “(Just Like) Starting Over”, from his upcoming album, “Double Fantasy”.


The single, “(Just Like) Starting Over”, was released on October 24, 1980, and by early December, it had climbed to #3.  However, the “Double Fantasy” album wasn’t doing very well on the charts and was pretty much being panned by critics.  One even called it, “a self-obsessed disaster”.  Nevertheless, just as John Lennon was starting over in music, it would all come to an end.

John and Yoko had a 2 p.m. photo shoot on December 8, 1980, with Annie Leibovitz for a “Rolling Stone” article about Lennon’s return to music, which would produce this iconic photo.

John Yoko for Rolling Stone

After a radio interview, Lennon and Yoko left their apartment around 5:30 p.m. and he said hello to fans that had gathered outside.  John autographed his “Double Fantasy” album for one, Mark David Chapman.

Lennon Chapman

Upon returning home that night around 10:50, Chapman was still waiting.  As Yoko walked ahead of Lennon, Chapman calls out, “Mr. Lennon” and he dropped into a “combat stance” and fired five shots.  The first one missed the superstar, but the next four hit him — two in the left side of the back and two in the left shoulder.  John Lennon stumbled inside the Dakota exclaiming, “I’m shot.  I’m shot”.

He was pronounced dead on arrival at Roosevelt Hospital.  The cause of death was listed as “hypovolemic shock”.  Lennon had lost more than 80% of the blood in his body.


After firing the five shots, the Dakota’s doorman, ex-CIA agent, Jose Sanjenis Perdomo, wrestled the gun from Chapman and he said, “Do you know what you’ve done?”  And, Chapman calmly replied, “Yes, I just shot John Lennon.”

Chapman pleaded guilty to second-degree murder and was sentenced to 20 years to life in prison.  He’s still locked away and has been denied parole seven times.  His next chance for parole will come in 2014.

*This version of  “(Just Like) Starting Over” is NSFW*

Two weeks after John Lennon’s death, “(Just Like) Starting Over” hit #1 on the Billboard Hot 100 and remained there for five weeks.  The album, “Double Fantasy”, which had been released three weeks before the murder bolted to #1 and shipped more than three million copies.

In January 1981, the follow-up single, “Woman”, reached #2, and the album would produce one more hit, “Watching The Wheels”, (#10).

“Double Fantasy” won “Album of the Year” at the 1982 Grammy Awards and Yoko Ono and Sean Lennon accepted the award.


John Lennon would have one more hit on the charts more than three years after his death.  The album, “Milk and Honey”, which was recorded in the last few months of his life produced the #5 Billboard Hot 100 hit, “Nobody Told Me”  in 1984.  It would become his third Top Ten American hit posthumously.

John Lennon NYC

On the day after John Lennon was murdered, Yoko Ono said, “There is no funeral for John…John loved and prayed for the human race.  Please pray the same for him.”


Yoko, Sean, and Julian, I shed tears that fateful night back in 1980, as a teenager, and I’ll smile today as I remember the joy that your husband and father, John Lennon, brought to the world.  We can all “Imagine” what the world really should be like:   “Imagine all the people living life in peace/You, you may say/I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one/I hope some day you’ll join us/And the world will be as one.”

Peace! ☮


P.S.  Without Yoko Ono, John Lennon might not have achieved his post-Beatles legacy that we know today and I want to pay tribute to that wonderful woman.

Last month, Ono told the “Advocate”, “I’m really saddened that fair treatment is not given to gays. Why can’t they get married, if they wanted to?”  When asked if would John have supported marriage equality, she said, “Definitely. John hated any injustice.”

Yoko Ono

What many of you don’t know is that she released her first dance single less than a month after John died.  “Walking On Thin Ice” would reach #13 on the Billboard Dance chart in 1981. She would have four more dance hits over the years.

However, in 2003, when the reissued, remixed “Walking On Thin Ice” hit #1 on the dance chart, it would be the start of Ono dominating the dance club charts.  She now has nine #1 Billboard Dance Hits.  Of those, from 2007-2011, seven of them were consecutive #1 hits!  What an amazing feat for an incredible woman who will turn 80-years-old in February 2013!  Happy birthday early Ono!

This was her last #1 hit, in 2011 and I’ll leave you with a quote:  “I think it’s better to dance than to march through life.  Love, Yoko”

oko Ono, thank you!


They Said What??? Chris Christie, Michael Brown, Sir Paul McCartney, & Madonna


“I appreciate that call from the president. It was very proactive. I appreciate that kind of leadership.”


(on seaside residents that didn’t leave their homes before Hurricane Sandy):  “It’s just stupid.  They are now in harm’s way.  These decisions were both stupid and selfish.”


“If conditions are not safe on Wednesday for Trick or Treating, I will sign an Executive Order rescheduling Halloween.”


(who botched the government’s reaction to Hurricane Katrina in New Orleans in 2005):  “One thing he’s gonna be asked is, why did he jump on [the hurricane] so quickly and go back to D.C. so quickly when in…Benghazi, he went to Las Vegas?  Why was this so quick?… At some point, somebody’s going to ask that question…. This is like the inverse of Benghazi.”


(about Yoko Ono, wife of Beatle John Lennon):  “She certainly didn’t break the group up, the group was breaking up.”


“It’s hard being such a powerful woman in the business. I’m known for not always being warm and fuzzy, because you’ll just get bulldozed over. You learn to put up this little protective shield, but it’s because of something. In my music, I come off as being very open about being insecure, vulnerable and sensitive sometimes. Then I’ll go onstage and be this powerhouse force to be reckoned with.”


(in New Orleans, Louisiana):  “I don’t care who you vote for as long as you vote for Obama.  Seriously, I don’t care who you vote for …do not take this privilege for granted. Go vote.”


“I recorded ‘You Don’t Own Me’ in 1964 and it’s hard for me to believe, but we’re still fighting for the same things we were then. Yes, ladies, we’ve got to come together, get out there and vote, and protect our bodies. They’re ours. Please vote.”


They Said What??? Madeleine Albright, Yoko Ono, Chuck Norris, Michelle Obama, & Nicki Minaj


“I think there are some who believe they are actually protecting women, you know, and that it is better for women to be taken care of. I think women want to take care of themselves, and I think having a voice in how that is done is very important. And frankly, I don’t understand — I mean, I’m obviously a card-carrying Democrat — but I can’t understand why any woman would want to vote for Mitt Romney, except maybe Mrs. Romney.”


“In too many states, even some folks who have a job wake up every morning worrying that they may lose their job simply for being gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender. We fight for them.”


(at the Democratic National Convention):  “It dismantles what generations before have built to ensure that everybody can enter and stay in the middle class. When it comes to getting the middle class back to work, Mitt Romney says, “No.” When it comes to respecting women’s rights, Mitt Romney says, “No.” When it comes to letting people marry whomever they love, Mitt Romney says, “No.” When it comes to expanding access to good health care, Mitt Romney says, “No.”


“If proud Americans can be who they are and boldly stand at the altar with who they love … then surely, surely we can give everyone in this country a fair chance at that great American Dream.”


“Back in the 1850s or 60s there was a charge that one party was the party of rum, Romanism and rebellion. I don’t know what you label the Democrats now but it’s the party of gays, godlessness and whatever else. I mean, same-sex marriage is in the platform, they want to go along with that as a right, I’m just astounded.”


(continuing his ranting at a Fort Worth, Texas, concert Sunday night about President Obama): “We’ve got a Muslim for a president who hates cowboys, hates cowgirls, hates fishing, hates farming, loves gays, and we hate him!.”


(in tweets responding to Williams):  “I think we need to call Hank Williams Jr what he is…. A broken-down, senile, racist coot.” “If Hank Williams Jr wasn’t such a pathetic, wheezing fossil, I’d have a talk with him.”


“If we look to history, our great country and freedom are under attack.  We’re at a tipping point and, quite possibly, our country as we know it may be lost forever if we don’t change the course in which our country is headed.”

(on whether he would support marriage equality):  “I can’t believe it. And if John was here he would have been very angry.”


(on the Lil’ Wanye’s “Dedication 4” mixtape, rhyming economy with zombie):  “I’m a Republican voting for Mitt Romney, you lazy bitches is f—ing up the economy.”


“This proposed amendment would permanently ADD in discrimination to our states constitution. This feels like taking a step back in time, it’s 2012, and this sort of extreme act is not only unfair … it’s anti-Minnesotan! By voting NO to this extreme Marriage Amendment, you’re sending a message that you support the rights for all loving couples, gay or straight.”