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Random Friday Thoughts — August 23, 2024

I always appreciate you taking the time out of your Friday (or weekend) to check out my random thoughts. Writing is fun and therapy for me.

For now, this is the last one for a while. I have a very busy late summer and fall coming up. There will be other entries, just not random thoughts.

Today’s “Random Friday Thoughts” have a running theme.

SO CLOSE TO 100!

October 1st is just around the corner.

My idol, President Jimmy Carter is now just over a month away from his 100th birthday!

He’s already the oldest living former president and the oldest lived president.

But, this would be an incredible milestone considering he entered end of life home hospice in February 2023!

Recently, he told his family he wants to live long enough to vote for Vice President Kamala Harris for president!

Also, he’s asked his long-time friend, President Joe Biden to deliver his eulogy when the time comes.

Carter did the same for his 1976 rival in the presidential election, President Gerald Ford, when Ford died in late December 2006.

BE BETTER

It’s one thing if you must attack and mock politicians, they’re grown-ups and they chose a public forum. Sadly, it comes with the territory.

However, kids are off limits. America — it might be hard for some, but be better!

DON’T MESS WITH CELINE!

It’s not uncommon for music acts to call out politician for unauthorized use of their music. For some, you might even go so far as saying that’s especially true if the musicians support the other party.

Recently, Celine Dion and her team distanced themselves from the Trump/Vance campaign.

But, what slayed me in this response was the last line “… AND REALLY, THAT SONG?”

Some of the others that have asked Trump not to use their music or have sued him: Adele, Aerosmith, Bruce Springsteen, Elton John, Isaac Hayes, Phil Collins, Prince, and Queen.

And, on the other side of the aisle: Sam & Dave called out Barack Obama in 2008 and Sting did the same to Al Gore in 2000 (he’s also called out Republicans, too).

In honor of Celine…

LINCOLN — PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION OF 1860

While Abraham Lincoln won the presidency in 1860, he only received 2.1% of the vote in the slaves states of the South!

Lincoln was NOT even on the ballot in Alabama, Florida, Georgia, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina, South Carolina (elections weren’t even held here and the electoral votes were given to Vice President John Breckenridge), Tennessee and Texas.

SHOOTING PRESIDENTS

While it was almost a year before I was born, I’ve read enough about President John F. Kennedy to know the stories of some school classrooms erupting in joy on the announcement of his shooting.

From Jon Meacham’s incredible book came these stories:

When Lincoln was assassinated in 1865, “The Texas Republic” wrote, “It is certainly a matter of congratulations that Lincoln is dead because the world is happily rid of a monster that disgraced the form of humanity.”

And, Columbia, South Carolina diarist Emma LaConte wrote, “Hurrah! Old Abe Lincoln has been assassinated! It may be wrong to be so jubilant, but I just can’t help it. After the heaviness and gloom… this blow to our enemies comes like a gleam of light. We have suffered till we feel savage. Could there have been a fitter death for such a man?”

That disgraceful woman (I wanted to call her some that sounds similar to her name, but that’d be rude) went on to add, “Andy Jackson will succeed him — the rail-splitter will be succeeded by the drunken ass. Such are the successors of Washington and Jefferson — such are to rule the South.”

THE “REAL” LINCOLN???

We know the sixteenth president as a married man and father. But, was there more to Lincoln?

There have always been rumors about his private life. Two new works are now are diving into that.

Cole Escola, who plays Mary Todd Lincoln, took his sold out Off-Broadway play “OH MARY!” to Broadway and is breaking records. It explores Lincoln’s bisexuality.

And, that’s also the topic of director Shaun Peterson’s new documentary called “Lover of Men”.

In his 2022 book, “And There Was Light”, Jon Meacham told the story of Lincoln moving to a new city and sleeping in the bed with another man for a period of time. (Yes, it could have been totally innocent!).

And, this wasn’t the only time — others have written that some of those bed-sharing moments lasted several years!

Finally, back to Meacham, he shared the story of Lincoln spending a hot and humid summer getaway with his assistant and private secretary John Hay.

As Hay dozed off, Lincoln read him Shakespeare. Um, okay!

And, look at the body language with Lincoln and his closest aides. Can you tell which one might be Hay? Maybe the one leaning with his arm/hand on Lincoln?

“RICHARD M. NIXON”

While I was child, I didn’t know or think much about President Nixon. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve read quite a bit about the former leader.

And, while he was deplorable, I’m intrigued with him and he’s one of the people (living or dead), I would’ve wanted to meet and spend time with to understand.

Here are some interesting things that Elizabeth Drew wrote about him in her 2007 biography in “The American Presidents Series”:

In the 1968 presidential election, Nixon (43.4%) barely defeated Democrat Hubert Humphrey (42.7%) in the popular vote and that was mainly because racist George Wallace siphoned 13.5% of the vote away from Nixon and Humphrey.

Drew summed it up with “Nixon had transformed the party of Abraham Lincoln into the party that welcomed racists and despisers of big government, setting into motion a Republican conservative ascendancy.”

Nixon, who was regularly drunk at night, preferred martinis. However, at dinner parties, he’d be served fine wines, while waiters gave his guests “lower quality” wines with the labels hidden behind a napkin!

ONE INTERESTING AGE NOTE

This summer, President Joe Biden dropped out of the 2024 presidential race at 81-years-old. His Republican opponent Donald Trump is 78.

I’m currently reading “A Time To Heal” by former President Gerald Ford.

When President Nixon resigned and Ford became president, he was debating between George H. W. Bush and Nelson Rockefeller for his vice president.

While he chose Rockefeller, one of the things that was holding him back was his age — Rockefeller was 66!

GOTTA LOVE THOSE GOLDENS

Before becoming president, the Fords had a golden retriever named Brown Sugar. After she died, they had another one named just Sugar. Once she crossed the rainbow bridge, they didn’t have another golden until they got Liberty in late 1974.

She would have puppies the following year!

JACKIE ETHEL JOAN: WOMEN OF CAMELOT”

Of the Kennedy wives, Jackie had the most publicity.

J. Randy Taraborrelli’s 2000 biography of the wives of the John Fitzgerald, Bobby, and Ted Kennedy was an interesting read.

Here are a few things I found interesting from the book:

George Smathers, a U.S. Senator from Florida and a friend of President Kennedy, said “I’ve shaken hands with eleven presidents in my lifetime, and the only two who were one hundred percent totally faithful to their wives were Harry Truman and Richard Nixon. Those were the only two.”

After President Kennedy’s assassination, Jackie lived in Washington D.C. and was unhappy. She decided to move to New York City in the fall of 1964. While house-hunting there, she dined out at Le Pavilion, an upscale restaurant in Manhattan with Bobby and Ethel and a large group of friends.

  • The dinner sounded amazing: After starting with champagne, they had caviar, navarin d’agneau (lamb stew) served with red wine, and for dessert chocolat souffle, followed by cafe filtre, and more champagne. Wow, that sounds like a perfect meal!

In early 1968, as Jackie was preparing to marry Aristotle Onassis, Ethel and Joan visited her in New York City.

Her Greek chef, Niko, made a feast of “Greek salad with tomatoes, peeled onions, cucumber, and bunch roka (Greek watercress)”. This was followed by a “Greek vegetable casserole with eggplant, zucchini, potatoes, and green peppers” and for dessert, “kouradiedes (Greek cookies) and Greek cheesecake with feta, ricotta, and Swiss cheeses.”

THAT’S IT

With all the craziness in the world, make it the best in your little part of it!

Anthony

Random Friday Thoughts — August 9, 2024

Some of us are finally getting a bit of a break from the heat and humidity of summer.

Bring on fall and Halloween!

Today’s thoughts are a little heavy at the start, but then some fun.

“AND THERE WAS LIGHT”

I just read two heavy books that really made me think.

Pulitzer Prize-winning author Jon Meacham’s 2022 book subtitled, “Abraham Lincoln and the American Struggle” was incredible, but sad to read.

While I know that racism is so much still a part of life in America (and the world) today, it saddens me to read some of the quotes from politicians from the mid-1800s about the Black race and slavery.

Lincoln was always against slavery and he was evolving in his thinking about what rights freed slaves should have when he was assassinated.

However, one of the biggest mistakes Lincoln made during his re-election run in 1864 was NOT choosing his own running mate.

He let the system choose racist Tennessee Democrat Andrew Johnson.

After Lincoln’s death, reconstruction came to a standstill and white supremacy came back to the forefront of American life through Black voting suppression and the Ku Klux Klan.

On a lighter note from the book, the story is told about Lincoln canvassing the countryside for his 1958 Senate race.

A woman on a horse approached Lincoln and said, “Well, for the land’s sake, you are the homeliest man I ever saw.” Lincoln replied, “Yes, ma’am, but I cannot help that.” She replied, “No, I suppose not, but you might stay at home.”

“THE GRIFT”

Clay Cane’s 2024 book is subtitled, “The Downward Spiral of Black Republicans from the Party of Lincoln to the Cult of Trump”.

Reading this book right after Meacham’s Lincoln book wasn’t planned, but it worked out well.

Meacham’s book was incredibly researched and written and he touched heavily on the racist politicians of Lincoln’s era and the struggles Lincoln faced as he evolved. However, Meacham, a white man, also somewhat sugar-coated Lincoln’s views on race.

Cane, a Black man, didn’t!

While he praised Lincoln for what he achieved in his lifetime, he also spelled it out that Lincoln was a “white supremist”. (Those two words were gross then, but are much, much more disgusting in today’s world!!!)

He wanted slaves to be free, but he didn’t think Blacks should have the same rights and other privileges white people did (such as holding political office).

“The Grift” moves from Lincoln’s Republican party (which would be closer to the Democratic party today) to where we are now.

Cane took us through the decades and explained how Black politicians chose to become Republicans because they could get the notoriety and fame they couldn’t within the Democratic party.

And, he stressed that many of those Black politicians that became talking heads on Fox News had very little support from Black voters.

Former Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice, South Carolina U.S. Senator Tim Scott and former presidential candidate Ben Carson are just some of the Black politicians and cabinet members Cane called out for using their Blackness only when it was convenient.

“The Grift” is a must read!

2024 OLYMPICS IN HEADLINES

THE GOOD…

THE BAD…

Poor sexy guy Anthony Ammirati of France… and all the memes and headlines! 🙂

THE UGLY (KARMA CATCHES UP)…

“BABY REINDEER”

I avoided this powerful Netflix series for the longest time because of the name and not watching the trailer. Until I started hearing more about it, I had no clue what it was about.

Richard Gadd, the show’s creator based the story on traumatic events in his life. He plays Donnie, a bartender in a London pub.

He takes pity upon Martha (Jessica Gunning), a lonely woman who comes in one day. She becomes a regular and she doesn’t understand boundaries.

Martha begins to terrorize him through texts and stalks him in his private life as he falls for Teri (Nava Mau), a trans woman.

If that wasn’t enough, Donnie gets involved in drug-fueled, sexually abusive relationship with TV writer Darrien O’Connor (Tom Goodman-Hill).

“Baby Reindeer” is nominated for eleven Emmy Awards, including Outstanding Limited or Anthology series and acting nominations for all four main actors (Gadd, Gunning, Mau and Goodman-Hill).

And, since I’ve been stalked by several people in my lifetime, it’s an even creepier story.

GRADE: A-

“FOOL ME ONCE”

This eight-episode series debuted on Netflix on New Year’s Day 2024.

It’s the most watched English language Netflix series of the year and the 7th-most viewed English language Netflix series of all time.

I just got around to watching it and it was thrilling and exciting. I did figure out the killer early on, but I didn’t see that ending coming! WOW!

Michelle Keegan was fantastic as the series’ lead Maya and it was great seeing Joanna Lumley (“Absolutely Fabulous”) as Maya’s icy mother-in-law Judith.

Last week, I admitted that I had never watched “Designing Women”, which cost me some gay points. Now, another confession — I never saw Lumley as Patsy Stone in “Ab Fab”, another iconic gay show!

GRADE: B

“FOOL ME ONCE” (THE NOVEL)

The book by Harlan Coben came out eight years earlier in the spring of 2016.

Without giving away any major plots, the action in the book took place in New York City and the Northeast and the series moved the location action to the U.K.

Also, there were two sub-plots in the series that weren’t in the book. Otherwise, the series and the book were pretty much the same.

INTERESTING RANDOM STAT

In the book, Coben shared this: shooting handguns with accuracy is difficult and even more so shooting at a moving target.

He states that trained police officers miss the moving target 76% of the time at three to nine feet! For civilians, it’s higher than 90%.

So, like the character Maya, basically run if you’re in that situation! (His literary advice!) While I trust him, I don’t want to find out in real life!

WHY WAS NIXON SO NASTY?

Back to presidents again — in the past, I shared things I learned about Henry Kissinger, President Nixon’s National Security Advisor and Secretary of State.

If you know anything about President Nixon, it’s no secret he was a racist, he was anti-Semantic, and homophobic.

I’ve always wondered if those that scream the loudest are the ones that have the most to hide?

There were always rumors and gossip about Nixon spending so much time away from his wife, Pat, with his friend, Bebe Rebozo.

And, in Walter Isaacson’s 1992 biography, “Kissinger”, I came across a couple of funny (gayish) stories and quotes more about Kissinger than Nixon.

One day at the West Wing elevator, Nixon’s Chief of Staff Bob Haldeman and Nixon’s White House Council John Ehrlichman were teasing Kissinger about seeing him in the newspaper with a beautiful woman at a party the night before.

Ehrlichman then said, “Of course you’d be happier if it was a boy. Were there any cute boys at the party, Henry?”

Kissinger was not amused.

And, Kissinger had a contentious relationship with Israeli Prime Minister Golda Meir.

As her time as Prime Minister was coming to an end in 1974, she threw a reception for the U.S. Secretary of State.

While laughing and joking, he gave her a big kiss.

Meir replied, “I never knew that you kissed women.”

THAT’S IT

With all the craziness in the world, make it the best in your little part of it!

Anthony

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