With the brutal and dangerously cold temperatures and wind chills invading much of Canada and the middle part of the United States, I thought I’d share a few things with you.
That’s how it looked on Lake Superior in Duluth, Minnesota Tuesday afternoon. Temperatures were around -18° and wind chills were -45°!
Cold, but gorgeous! Stay warm!
HERE’S TO A SPEEDY RECOVERY JUSSIE!
While it’s not new, I’m disgusted by the hatred in this country (and world).
“Empire” star Jussie Smollett was assaulted early Tuesday morning in Chicago by two white men. Police are treating it as a possible hate crime.
The men allegedly yelled at him, “Aren’t you that faggot ‘Empire’ n*****?” before beating him, pouring bleach on him and putting a rope around his neck!
Jussie, I pray for a quick recovery from the physical injuries. I know emotionally, it’ll take time to heal. My thoughts are with you!
RACISM
There’s another very pathetic part of the story that I won’t mention because it hasn’t been confirmed by the Chicago Police Department. But, if it’s true, it’s so very sad!
We all know that racism and hate has always been a part of our country’s fabric. Even after the progress in the 1960s, it was still there.
But, before 45, it was rightfully condemned to be publicly racist.
Sadly, people are “free” again to hate without regret! 😦
SUAVE, BUT CREEPY, (VIOLENT) MEN!
Dating at a more mature age sucks! Well, it can suck at any age! 🙂
I finally got around to watching the Bravo series, “Dirty John”, which is based on a true story. (I talk about it below.)
As I was watching the first episode, I couldn’t believe that the woman (Debra) didn’t pick up on the warning signs that the man she had just started dating was a loser and user.
But, by the second episode, it really clicked as to how this could happen. It happened to me on my 30th birthday, in Chicago, in the fall of 1994!
I had just been living in the city for three months and went out to celebrate. I met Richard, a very charming guy with a great smile. He was 25.
We had a great time that night and the first few weeks were fun. Before I knew it, he had “moved in” — actually, “would never leave” is more like it!
By Christmas, the relationship was strained by his jealousy, which led to domestic violence.
Yes, I became “that person” lying about the bruises and making excuses that it wouldn’t happened again.
Five months after we met, it culminated with a near death, stalking experience — an emergency room visit, an arrest, and a court appearance!
This was a few days after the attack. You can still see the gash on the forehead from a brick and the bruises under the eye and on the lip.
While the Chicago court system let him off with nothing more than a slap on the hand, karma and fate prevailed.
A few years ago, I heard that he died!
“DIRTY JOHN”
Sharing that personal story was clearly inspired by Bravo’s “Dirty John” with Connie Britton and Eric Bana.
It’s based on a podcast about a very successful businesswoman and mother of three, Debra Newell. She’s been unlucky at love after four failed marriages when she finally meets John Meehan, a man just too good to be true.
Well, guess what? He is too good to be true, thus the show’s name, “Dirty John”!
After the first episode, I thought, “Seriously, you’re that lonely not to see the red flags?” But, more pieces of the story come together and you’re sucked into it!
Britton looks amazing and her clothes scream elegance! Bana looks great even as the louse John! And, it’s always a treat seeing Julia Garner (“Ozark” and “The Americans”).
But, I was really blown away by Juno Temple, who plays Veronica, Debra’s oldest daughter. She’s incredible! I remember her from 2010’s “Kaboom”!
Okay, one more thing — I’m still crushing on Kevin Zegers!
If you missed it on Bravo, it hits Netflix on Valentine’s Day (how lovely and twisted!) and a second season is in the works.
GRADE: A-
REMEMBERING JAMES INGRAM
Two-time Grammy Award winner (with 12 other Grammy nominations) and two-time Oscar nominee James Ingram’s death was announced Tuesday, just a few weeks shy of his birthday.
He was 66.
Ingram first hit the chart in 1981 with “Just Once” (with Quincy Jones), one my favorite songs of his.
He scored a total of eight Top 40 hits on the Billboard Hot 100 including two chart-toppers, 1982’s “Baby, Come To Me” with Patti Austin and 1990’s “I Don’t Have The Heart”.
SAG AWARDS — DIVERSITY HUMOR! 🙂
Host Megan Mullally : “Hollywood did manage to get a few things right: They cast black people in “Black Panther”, so that was good… Asian people in”Crazy Rich Asians”… And, a green book in “Green Book”. You know there were some executives saying, ‘Um, could the book be white?”
OSCAR NOMINATION SNUBS
While I was hoping for nominations for Lucas Hedges and Nicole Kidman for “Boy Erased” and Julia Roberts for “Ben Is Back”, I didn’t expect them!
I was surprised that Timothee Chalamet (“Beautiful Boy”), Emily Blunt (“A Quiet Place” and “Mary Poppins Returns”) and Bradley Cooper (Best Director – “A Star is Born”) were overlooked.
Furthermore, I was shocked that Marina De Tavira (“Roma”) picked up a nomination for Best Supporting Actress! However, with all of the awards season love for the movie, it shouldn’t surprise me.
But, the biggest snub for me was in the Documentary category. I still can’t believe “Won’t You Be My Neighbor?”, my #3 movie of 2018, wasn’t nominated!
“WON’T YOU BE MY NEIGHBOR?”
As a kid, I never got to watch “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood”. But, on my return flight from Morocco last fall, I watched the documentary, “Won’t You Be My Neighbor?”.
I absolutely fell in love with Fred Rogers and I’m glad I had the whole row of seats to myself because of the tears streaming down my face!
It brought in $22.6 million in domestic box office receipts making it the biggest documentary of 2018!
As you’ll see below the trailer, I gave it a grade I rarely give anything in entertainment!
GRADE: A+
“BEAUTIFUL BOY”
As for acting, Timothee Chalamet and Steve Carrell were fantastic in this true story about a father’s efforts to save his teenager from drug abuse and death.
Chalamet was nominated for many major acting awards for this movie, but he didn’t get the Oscar nod.
Last year, he did get an Academy Award nomination for “Call Me By Your Name”, my favorite movie that I saw in 2018.
So, about “Beautiful Boy” — the acting was superb, but the movie was just a few steps up from a Lifetime movie.
You can catch it on Amazon Prime.
GRADE: B
THAT’S IT
With all the craziness in the world, make it the best in your little part of it!
Anthony